Sunday, January 18, 2015

Bondage

I find bondage a very erotic,sexual fantasy.I have of course indulged a little.Having someone completely at your mercy,being able to do anything you want to them.Or having yourself violated and penetrated without being able to stop it.I'm sure many of you fantasise about that.

Thanks to TS for the pics i've put up.

Bondage can be divided into six main categories:


Bondage that pulls parts of the body together (rope, straps, harnesses).

Bondage that spreads parts of the body apart (spreader bars, x-frames).

Bondage that ties the body down to another object (such as chairs or stocks).

Bondage that suspends the body from another object (suspension bondage).

Bondage that restricts normal movement (hobble skirts, handcuffs, pony harness).


Bondage that wraps the whole body or a part of it in bindings such as cloth or plastic (saran wrap or cling film "mummification") as well as sleepsack bondage.

Some of the large variety of restraints used in bondage:

Rope, often preferred because of its flexibility. Rigging, however, requires considerable skill and practice to do safely.


Chains, including police handcuffs, thumbcuffs and belly chains.

Institutional restraints, including straitjackets.

Purpose-made bondage gear, such as monogloves, sleepsacks, bondage hooks and bondage tables.

Handcuffs can be used to cuff ankles as well, sometimes even toe cuffs are used

Some simple bondage techniques:

Verbal bondage, in which (as the name suggests) the top simply tells the bottom to do something.

Simply tying the hands together in front or behind.

Anchoring the hands to the front, back or sides of a belt at the waist.

A spread eagle, with the limbs splayed out and fastened by wrists and ankles to bedposts, door frame or some other anchoring point.

A hogtie securing each wrist to its corresponding ankle behind the back (wider, padded restraints such as bondage cuffs are recommended for this).

The crotch rope involves pulling a rope between the labia to apply pressure to the female genitals. Sometimes a knot is placed in the rope at the position of the clitoris to intensify the sensation.


Some more complex techniques:

The reverse prayer position (not recommended unless the subject has flexible shoulders).

An over-arm tie, in which the arms are brought over the head, and the wrists fastened together behind the head and then by a length of rope, chain or strapping to a belt at the waist.

There are also some common fantasy settings in which bondage is often played:

Rape fantasy: The top fictitiously abducts the consenting bottom and has complete control to do what he/she pleases.

Domination/slavery: A training session occurs in which rewards for obedience and punishment for defiance are given. Humiliation is usually involved.

Predicament bondage: The bottom is given a choice between two tortures. For example, caning on the rear or flogging on the chest. If the bottom cannot stand one any longer, the top will start the other. This can also be done mechanically, like having a bottom squat and rigging a crotch rope to tighten if they attempt to stand.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I was first introduced to light bondage at age 16 by you-know-who. I could not find anyone else prepared to indulge me in this way until I was in my late 20s. I do enjoy it and would engage it it more if I had more willing partners.

I tied up my wife once and ate her pussy until she was crazy horny, then went into the den and watched CNN for about 45 minutes.

She won't let me tie her up any more.

Lavender Fields said...

It was the light bondage that started me on an exploration of sexual pleasures