Question and Answer time

Firstly, thank you to Real Panties for publishing a pic of me in some panties. Go here to check it out.

http://realpanties.blogspot.com/2015/02/woman-showing-bottom-in-red-lace-panties.html

Now, some replies to questions I am getting emailed.

 Do you reply to emails ?
Yes,i reply to all emails. It may take me a day or two but I will reply

Are there photos of me?
Yes ,sprinkled among my posts there are real pics
There are not though any face shots

Do I have sex with men other than subs ?
Yes, I have lovers both male and on occasion female. Also, I  have subs both male and female .

Is db real?
Yes,db is real. We have known each other for a number of years

Do I talk online?
Very rarely due to my busy sex and personal life

Breathe Play - Erotic asphyxiation

 The other day i was emailing with a blogreader..When the subject of breath play came up.I've never actually done this but it certainly did capture my interest.Now,the more extreme types are a little too worrying and im not sure i'd go that far.But,the breath holding,pinching nose and queening sound like things i'd like to try out.
For those of you who don't know what it is.Here are some of the ways its done.Normally its done as a means of control in a BDSM relationship.

Also,if any blog readers do this type of play either the milder forms or have tried the more extreme ones i am interested to hear your experiences and could you email and tell me about it at annalouise_1966@hotmail.com                         

The following articles are from a BDSM site                            

Bags/Plastic wrap
The main things to keep in mind are all pretty obvious. Remove the bag or plastic if the person faints. I would recommend that the material be held in place by hand. If you opt for another way of holding it in place try to avoid any pressure to the larynx.

Having the bottom hold their breath
This is simple and will probably save you from prosecution if anything goes wrong with the play. You can simply tell your partner not to breathe. The most important thing to watch with this would be that if they faint you need to make sure they don't fall and hurt themselves. I think that this is a pretty sexy way to play...and if you have a fetish for objects you can work that into this. For example, if I were doing a scene using this I might hold a ligature loosely around my partners neck and tell them not to breath. If I were involved in playing with them in a BDSM context I might dress it up with some kind of passionate threat that I would strangle them to death with the ligature if they breathed before I gave them permission. Another possibility would be wrapping them in plastic but not covering their mouth and nose. Then telling them not to breathe as I held a feather over their mouth and nose and told them that if they breathed I would punish them.

NOSE PINCHING
This is my favorite type of breathplay to use. It can be accomplished many ways and I will only name a few here. You can cover your bottom's mouth and nose with your hands. You can put duct tape (I recommend the name brand) over their mouth and pinch their nose closed with your hands. You can put a gag in their mouth and pinch off their nose with a clothespin. You get the idea. This method needs to take into consideration what will happen if the bottom vomits. I recommend that if you use a gag it is one that doesn't have a complicated closure. I recommend Velcro if possible. If you must use a complicated gag then have some heavy duty scissors literally in hand to cut through the bondage if you have to get them out of it fast. The stuff to remember with this is all pretty basic and it has little chance of any real problem developing as long as you restore normal breathing to the bottom if they faint.

Queening or Kinging
Okay, so I don't know if Kinging is the proper term but it is the one I'm going to use because I like it. Queening is basically when a woman smothers a person by pressing her sex into their face so that they can't breath. Kinging is basically when a man uses his sex to keep a woman from breathing as he pinches her nose closed somehow. I think it is fun to wear a harness with a dildo and use that method of domination myself. Obviously you could smother people with other body parts too, but I won't go into every part you could use. The risks are all about the same. If anything is in a person's mouth that could spark a gag reflex I think it is important not to insert it too deep or someone could throw up and inhale their own vomit. Many of us have faced that fear even when we weren't doing breath control..haha. If you are sitting on someone's face it is really important to have some nonverbal signals since you may not notice if they faint.

 

 

Gasmasks or Hoods
I love these. They are some of my personal favorites but they are a tad riskier than the options I mentioned earlier. You can put the bottom in a gasmask (my favorite is the Israeli style) and cover the air inlet. If you are really creative you can attach a tube to the air inlet and cut the air off by placing the tube opening against the body of the Top or bottom. It is hard to describe how delicious it is to be gasping from lack of air and have the tube placed against one of my nipples so that I am literally sucking on it with each gasp. Be very familiar with the gasmask and how to get it off quick if the bottom vomits from lack of oxygen. In the case of hoods, the first thing I would mention is that you need some way to monitor the bottom's state while they are in it. Depending on what style hood you are using you will need to adjust your play style accordingly. I recommend a hood with a mouth opening that you can cover so that it could be open if the person gets sick. If you choose to use some kind of discipline hood that uses tubes in the nose and mouth of your bottom you may want to be especially careful that if your bottom passes out the tubes won't get jammed into them too far if they fall. It is also important that you can remove the hood fast if the need arises. As much as I love inflatable hoods they are slow to remove and I think them poorly suited for breath control play. When you restore breathing to your bottom it is important that you make sure there is nothing in the air that may hinder their breathing or harm them to inhale through the tubes. I've inhaled latex polish and baby powder and I can tell you it isn't fun. 

Rebreathing bladders
These are usually attached to gasmasks or hoods. If you use them that way see my comments above. If you use these with tubes or something just remember to make sure the tubes don't go too far down the bottom's throat or up their nose.

Pressure on the Trachea and/or Hanging
This form of play requires a lot of caution. If you are somehow compressing the trachea it is important to do so by slowly applying pressure and making sure not to apply pressure to the larynx. One method is to take a curved finger and place it at the part of the throat where it meets the chin and pushing up and back slowly. Another method is to apply pressure below the larynx (sometimes with a scarf). A lot of injuries can occur to the trachea this way if you press too hard. If you are going to use a ligature or noose it is safer if you use one that doesn't constrict. If it does, make sure it is wide and padded. If it is too narrow it will cut or twist the skin causing bruising and damage to things such as blood vessels, nerves, the cervical spine, and the windpipe. It may also be a good idea to use a dry lubricant such as baby powder and a soft type of rope or ligature. If you are hanging someone it is important never to drop them into place. That could break their spine. I think a really nice form of rigging for hanging is when a person is raised into place with their feet still on the ground. If you decide to try airwalking there is a significant possibility of damage to the spine.

 

Compression of the chest
I like to simply have a lover lay on me and make it impossible for me to breathe. I'm rather teeny so if I have a big partner they can accomplish this pretty easy. Another form of chest compression is corseting. I can personally attest to how wonderfully hot it is to barely be able to breath in when wearing one. If you pursue corseting you should do some research on that particular topic. However you compress the chest you need to go slowly and carefully. It would be easy to break a person's ribs. It is my understanding that when you ease up on someone you should do it slowly or they may faint.

PRESSURE ON THE CAROTID ARTERY
It takes about 15 seconds of pressure on the carotid arteries to cause unconsciousness. If you use this method bare in mind that you are cutting blood off from the brain and physically stimulating baroreceptors that will cause the vagus nerve to fire off impulses that could cause cardiac arrest. Other than that it is important to avoid pressure to the larynx and damage to the blood vessels. Do not ever twist the skin or underlying structure of the neck while doing this. It could cause injury to the spine or internal trauma to the neck. A simple way to accomplish this is to stand behind the bottom and place the bend of your elbow in front of your partners throat. Then slowly bend your arm applying pressure on the carotid arteries but not on the front of the throat. Many police forces use this hold but most classify it as a form of deadly force.

 

DRUGS
This is so incredibly dangerous that it amazes me that anyone is trying it. There are drugs that can induce asphyxia. I don't recommend them and I won't list them. I will list the problems with them. First, no one knows the safe dosage for you. Second, if you over react or have an odd response to the drug and you are alone you are basically dead. Third, you can't reverse it quickly if things start to go wrong. I would advise against this even if you happened to be a trained anesthesiologist with the best equipment money could buy. It shouldn't be done alone, no matter what.

Femdom Pics

Office Visit (Are these the things you like to hear about Rev )

This happened with a former lover. He had a fantasy about me going to his office and giving him a BJ. He had me booked in as a client and he only planned for us to have coffee and figure out if this would work out in the future. Of course I had other plans.

He opened the door and let me in. We kissed and I let my hand slide down to his groin. Stroking the outside of his pants, feeling his cock harden underneath. I unzipped his pants and pushed him back on the chair.I pulled his semi erect cock out of his pants.I stroked it between my hand.feeling it stiffen.I bent forward kissing the end of it.Then parting my lips i pushed his pulsating cock deep into my mouth.I just held it there for a moment feeling it pulse gently in my mouth.I started to suck moving up and down his length,my tongue flicking the end as i came up.
One hand aiding with pumping his cock,the other gently squeezing and massaging his swollen full balls.I stop sucking and squeeze the base of his cock hard.The veins in his cock swell and stand out.I start to lick and flick at the swollen veins.Then i quickly release the base and suck very hard and fast .I can feel him shudder and i know he's close to orgasm.my mouth is sliding easily up and down lubricated by his slippery pre cum.Then i feel him jerk and spurt into my mouth.My mouth is filled with thick white semen.So,much it starts to dribble out of the sides of my mouth and onto my chin.With a mouth still full of hot semen i move up to his face and kiss him passionately on the lips.opening my mouth i pass some of his semen into his own mouth and then move it around in there with my tongue.He pulls my head closer and we kiss so deeply with the semen in our mouths.
I think he enjoyed the reality of his fantasy.Even more so because we didnt lock the door and anyone could of walked in and found us.

Wax Play

Wax play is a form of sensual play involving warm or hot wax usually dripped from candles or ladled onto a person's naked skin. Wax play may be combined with other BDSM or sexual activity.




Step 1:

Encourage your partner to close their eyes. Part of the sensuality of pouring erotic hot wax on your partner is the expectation of it. Suggest that they close their eyes so they won't quite know when to expect the stinging drops.



Step 2:

Light your candle and allow it to burn for a moment so that the wax begins to melt. (Be sure to check the warnings section for clarification on which candles to use).



Step 3:

Drip the wax on your partner. This is the most popular form of erotic hot wax play. Drip the wax on your partner in small inconsistent droplets. Keep them guessing when the next one will happen.



Step 4:

Pour hot wax on your lover. This technique is a little risky as a great amount of wax can cause a burn. Build up to this point, and make sure you are using paraffin candles. Allow the candle to burn until a pool of wax has formed, then pour it onto your partner forming pools of hot wax.

These are some pics of  a lover dripping the hot wax on my breasts

 

 

 

 

Cock and Ball Torture (Post for Big Gord, Anon, and Slinky)

Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a sexual activity involving torture of the male genitals. This may involve directly painful activities, such as wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball-busting, genital flogging, urethral play, tickle torture, erotic electrostimulation or even kicking.
The recipient of such activities may receive direct physical pleasure via masochism, or emotional pleasure through knowledge that the play is pleasing to a sadistic dominant.

The following photo's are of Big Gord ( Blog Reader) .Thank you for letting me share your wonderful photos.






All Photos below are from cock and ball torture and extreme restraints . Email me if you'd like links.



 




Ballbusting is a form of CBT in which a man has his testicles kicked, kneed, punched or squeezed



A ball crusher is a device made from either metal or often clear acrylic which causes the testicles to be slowly crushed by turning a nut or screw
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A parachute is a small collar, usually made from leather, which fastens around the scrotum, and from which weights can be hung. It is conical in shape, with three or four short chains hanging beneath, to which weights can be attached.
Used as part of cock and ball torture within a BDSM relationship, the parachute provides a constant drag, and squeezing effect on the man's testicles, moderate weights of 3–5 kg can be suspended, especially during bondage. Smaller weights can be used when the man is free to move, when the swinging effect of the weight can restrict sudden movements, as well as providing a visual stimulus for the dominant partner


A humbler is a BDSM physical restraint device used to restrict the movement of a submissive male participant in a BDSM scene.
The humbler consists of a testicle cuff device that clamps around the base of the scrotum, mounted in the centre of a bar that passes behind the thighs at the base of the buttocks. This forces the wearer to keep his legs folded forward, as any attempt to straighten the legs even slightly pulls directly on the scrotum, causing considerable discomfort
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A testicle cuff is a ring-shaped device around the scrotum between the body and the testicles such that when closed it does not allow the testicles to pass through it. A common type has two connected cuffs; one for the scrotum and one for the base of the penis. They are one of many different gadgets for restraining the male genitalia. Also a standard padlock may be locked around the scrotum, and without the key the man will not be able to remove it.
Some men enjoy the feeling of being 'owned', and some people enjoy the feeling of 'owning' their partners. Making the man wear testicle cuffs gives a sense that his sexual organs belong to his partner


Photo from Deviantart.net

Do Hot Online Lovers Make Good Real Life Lovers ?

Have you ever met someone online.Had some truly incredible hot,sexy chats and wondered if the connection would be that hot if you really met.Well on friday afternoon i actually met someone who i'd chatted with like that. Now,yes i have many times meet other guys off line.But,we've generally exchanged pics,emails etc as well.Never have i just met a guy i'd only had sex with online ,knew nothing about him other than his first name and had no clue what he looked like.


He had never met a woman he'd chatted with before,and he was also curious about the attraction.We agreed to meet for a late lunch and spend the afternoon together.That way we both had a get out if there was no attraction.

Well he was really cute .Excellent start of course.He was in his late 20's (a lot younger that me) ,beautiful dark hair and very affectionate.He was extremely nervous and couldn't stop shaking for a while.He was very quiet and said i wish i had my computer here so i could chat to you.Our meals arrived and to break the ice i asked him if he wanted to fuck me later.After he nearly choked on his food he started laughing and said damn right he did.I stroked his hand and played footsie under the table with his thigh.He then started to loosen up and relax.

We went back to his hotel room and only just managed to shut the door before the clothes started flying.He really likes mirrors and in our online games we often use mirrors.So he placed an armchair sideways by the mirror.He sat me in it with my legs over the sides of the arms.He knelt in front of me and licked me pussy.I'll give him a 10 out 10 for pussy licking he was really good.I came quicker than i wanted but then he stood in front of the mirror and i knelt in front of him and sucked his cock.He said he loved the way i varied the sensations.Sucking it in different places,then licking,sucking hard .He said he'd never had it sucked like that before.He spurted loads of hot cum into my mouth and it dripped all over me and the floor .He rubbed the drips into my nipples then sucked them clean.

We got onto the bed and snuggled and kissed for the next 30 mins.Then he had me lie on my stomach with my legs apart while he fingered my pussy and ass.He licked the cheeks of my ass and i could feel his hardening cock brush against me sometimes.

He put on a condom and slid inside me.God it felt really good feeling his hard cock in me.He was a very energetic lover and i loved feeling him pounding my pussy hard.We managed to orgasm practically together and as i lost control i could hear him groaning and pushing so deep into me.

So,in answer to myself.Yes,really hot chat guys are also really hot lovers in real life.